Yohami is banned from HUS!

in april, yohami was a genius.

now it’s december, and he is the enemy.

reminds me of the comment i read recently at dalrock’s, how before everything a woman says, just add “right now i feel like” — sort of like the chinese fortune cookie game of adding “in bed” after every fortune.

can’t find that comment, but this is a similar one by xsplat, at rollo’s blog.

from his comments:

I woman can love like a puppy. She can dote and be devoted. You can be her world.

But it’s a different love than what men have. Men are loyal to love, while women are loyal to immediate circumstances. Her feelings can be strong and powerful, and she will be honest when she says she wants to be with you forever. Translated to man speak it means “Right now I feel like I want to be with you forever”.

A woman’s love is a valuable thing. It has it’s own brand of truth and beauty to it. Just don’t mistake it for another thing.

very, VERY well said.

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UPDATE

just had to add, “a woman’s love has its own brand of truth” — hmm, not to get too philosophical, but isn’t truth supposed to be sort of permanent?

as in, isn’t the whole point of calling some truth, is that it is not ephemeral, it doesn’t change??

maybe i need to think about this more.

or maybe i am just looking at it from a male perspective.

maybe i am thinking about it too logically.

very interesting topic.

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UPDATE

still, key takeaway:

YOU CANNOT TAKE A WOMAN SERIOUSLY

and when i say “seriously”, i mean, you cannot take what a woman says seriously, in the “masculine” sense of giving it serious meaning.

you cannot take a woman seriously because her “truth” is constantly changing!

or, like xpsplat said,

“do not take her at her word.”