this post is so good, it gets better every time i read it.
it is HUGE.
it is KILLER.
rollo does it all. he perfectly explains what susan and other women are trying to do. but rollo is right: game is FOR men, and if it is FOR men, then it cannot also be FOR women.
it’s one or the other.
you have to pick a side.
real game cannot be sanitized.
from rollo’s post “build a better beta”:
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The overarching point is to create a more acceptable man for a female defined goal, NOT to truly empower any man. There is no feminine opposite to this; there is no counter effort to make women more acceptable to men – in fact this is actively resisted and cast as a form of slavish subservience. This is the extent of the feminine reality; it’s so instaurating that men, with the aid of ”concerned women”, will spend lifetimes seeking ways to better qualify themselves for feminine approval. That’s the better Beta they hope to create. One who will Man-Up and be the Alpha as situations and use would warrant, but Beta enough to be subservient to the feminine imperative. They seek a man to be proud of, one who’s association reflects a statement of their own quality, yet one they still have implicit control over.
Whether the reasonings are moral, entitlement or ‘honor bound’ in nature the end result is still feminine primacy. The sales pitch is one of manning up to benefit yourself, but the latent purpose is one of better qualifying for normalized feminine acceptance. What they cannot reconcile is that the same benefits that are inherent in becoming more Alpha (however you choose to define that) are the same traits that threaten his necessary position of subservience as a Beta. This is precisely why ‘real’ Game, and truly unplugging, cannot be sanitized.
A real tour-de-force by Rollo there.
He’s right. You can’t define male autonomy in terms of what women like.
And yet that is precisely what HUS and other female relationship bloggers try to do. With shaming and other manipulations instead of incentives, no less.
Building a better beta is exactly right.
She kinda wants to take a higher beta, or hope that he takes himself through game, right up to the lesser alpha line but no further. Slightly into lesser alpha might be ok so long as he remains strictly monogamous LTR seeking, with a view towards marriage.
Susan hates hookup culture and hates infidelity even worse, even when it’s consensual. She has a jealousy streak a mile wide, as is probably often true for girls who were 6’s when young, esp. as they age. Maybe once a 7, hard to tell at 55. She is a pretty young looking 55yo.
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